Bend Over Candle Altar Service


A Bend Over spell is used to subdue the will of another person and compel them to follow your own bidding. Truthfully, many people think the term “bend over” is a dirty little bedroom joke when actually the “bending” is the other way around — think of someone bowing to you. Some people use it to have someone meet them halfway, such as compelling a boss to favor you and treat you as an equal, rather than a subordinate. This nuanced understanding of the phrase highlights its potential use in various power dynamics and social interactions, indicating respect and subservience. What you try to achieve here is to command the respect of others so that they will bow down to your words, your directions, and your will.  It says, “bow down to me.”

I prepare candle vigils in your name and leave them continuously burning on our altars. These glass encased vigil candles burn between 5 and 7 days.

Making Out Your Request – Your Petition

How to make out your petition: There is a section below asking you to fill out your petition or prayer. If you need to send me photos, you can always Email Me. Your petition describes your situation and what you would like to happen. Including birthdate information for all those involved is helpful but not necessary.

When you place your order, it may take a few days before your candle reaches the altar because other candle services before you are still burning. After your work completes, you should receive a report in about 2 weeks AFTER the burn time. Remember, ordering candles in runs will add to the time for your work to complete.

Order Candles in Runs. Increase the power of your petition. This is called setting lights in runs. I offer candles in runs of 2 and 3. A run of candles keeps your petition going and helps to create a divination story in the glass. I light setting runs the old fashioned way: the next candle is not lit until the first one finishes burning, then the next, and so on. Please remember that this approach adds to the amount of time before you receive a report. A single candle takes a week to burn, a run of two would take 2 weeks to burn, and a run of three would take 3 weeks to burn. I no longer offer runs of 7 candles as they require a large amount of storage space and many clients have misunderstood that they take over 2 months to burn before they receive a report.


Bend Over is used to subdue the will of another person and compel them to follow your own bidding.